Observing oneself instead of blaming another. When two people come together there is initially the exciting “honeymoon” period.  They’re getting to know each other. However, after a few months or even mere weeks, the gloss diminishes.  This is when the deeper aspects of each begin to surface. But how many realise that seeing their relationships for spiritual growth can be a very dynamic way to develop. For instance we bring to every relationship, romantic or otherwise, all the unresolved baggage from our own past. The more intimate the relationship, the…